POLL : What would you do/how would you react if your 17yr old daughter had sex wit a 20 yr old guy?

Here in New Zealand the age of consent is 16 and that situation is different there so it is a crime by default in the States..I would be wondering if she freely decided to have sex or was coerced into by the 20 year old male..I have a Daughter and if it happened to her at the same age but she was in the States I would still think the same way.