Asperger's Syndrome or just different?

My suggestion is to contact one of the autism groups nearby (Aspeger's is a mild form of autism). They can guide you about getting tested, treatment, etc. They tend to be pretty proactive and should be helpful no matter how it turns out. In my lowly opinion, it does sound like a likelihood. And, for your information, people with autism, especially Aspeger's, tend to be above average in intelligence. Thought I would give you a positive to consider.)