Gentlemen, why do we men attach so much importance to getting laid or getting a girlfriend?

you sound just like me haha every single thing you said almost allll guys stress on it i never thought someone looked at it the same as i did till just now haha chillin with friends is sooooo much better than any girl 99% of guys stress soooo much about it because they think there cool and they feel the NEED 2do it but in reality its nothing haha im 18 virgin never kissed a girl and i dont think anything of it other than i dont care because i have lotssssss of friends and we have fun in fact i know i have wayyyyy more fun with my life than a guy that has sex often sex doesnt mean a thing and as for girlfriends its a waste of time because while your with her sitting on her couch watching t.v. u can be out having the time of your life with your friends i never understood it